Women don’t shrink because they’re weak.
They shrink because they’ve been conditioned to.
Good enough.
Not too much.
Don’t be intimidating.
Don’t take up space.
We learn to make ourselves smaller to make others more comfortable.
But here’s the truth:
You were never meant to be “good enough.”
You were meant to be whole.
Why You Shrink - Without Realizing It
💔 fear of disappointing others
💔 fear of being too much
💔 fear of being unloveable if you show your truth
💔 fear of being judged for your power
But shrinking comes with a cost:
your identity.
How to Stop Shrinking
🔥 Speak even when your voice shakes.
Courage grows through expression.
🔥 Take up emotional and physical space.
Sit proudly. Stand tall. Wear the things you love.
🔥 Replace “I’m sorry” with “Thank you for your patience.”
Language shifts identity.
🔥 Let your desires be heard.
Your wants are not burdens.
🔥 Choose people who aren’t intimidated by your becoming.
Your world expands when your circle does.
Good Enough Was Never Your Destiny
You were meant for fullness.
For authenticity.
For a life where your light isn’t dimmed -
but welcomed.
You don’t become powerful by pushing harder.
You become powerful by remembering:
You were never meant to shrink.
